But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist , to help us out with the details. The other day when my boyfriend and I were hooking up, he nervously asked me to play with his balls. I totally froze up because I had no idea what the heck to do. Testicles have always seemed so strange to me. Any tips for what to do with balls?! A: Thanks for your question! Testicles are so frequently left out of the fun that even the simplest licks or touches can leave the recipient breathless. Of course, everyone is different, but many people enjoy having their balls touched, licked , sucked, and played with.
Do: Pay Attention To Your Partner’s Balls
Click here to get it. Has your man recently asked you to pay more attention to his balls? Many women forget — or avoid — to stimulate his balls at all. Side Note: I put together this in-depth assesment that will uncover just how good you are at giving oral sex and satisfying your man. It may uncover some uncomfortable truths, or you may discover that you are already a queen at giving blow jobs. Ball sucking gets a bad rap! Of course, it sounds a little unappetizing when described like that, but your partner should respect your desires before starting any activity which is exactly why surprise anal is a no-no!
Isn’t Ball Sucking Just Teabagging?
Anyone who has testicles — or has accidentally kneed someone with them — knows that the balls are ridiculously sensitive. As clinical sexologist Dr. Playing with the testicles may be incredibly pleasurable — which is reason enough to give them some attention — but ball stimulation may also offer some health benefits, too. No really. Goldstein, stimulating them may boost production of the male reproductive cell. Playing with the testicles can also improve blood circulation to the region, according to Stubbs. If that sounds very un-sexy, consider the fact that about 6 in every , men will be diagnosed with testicular cancer at some point in their lifetime and that over 70 percent of cases occur in adults ages 20 to No doubt, partnered testicle play is great. Many different things can qualify as testicle play — you can use your mouth, hands, toys, and more to play with testicles.
Your guy's request is far from unusual. Sucking on his testicles can make for an incredibly sensational experience -- and you'll double his pleasure if you simultaneously fondle his shaft. Next time you're giving him south-of-the-border oral action, take a sexy detour and move your mouth from his main member to the rest of his package. Swirl the tip of your tongue around his scrotum -- the loose sac of skin that surrounds the testicles. Then, lick his balls with long, sweeping strokes as if you were savoring a delicious ice cream cone. Mix it up and intermittently purse your lips and suck softly on the skin or take each testicle all the way into your mouth.